Best Friend vs. Love Match

As you can tell by my title – Best Friend vs. Love Match, I currently find myself in a quandary.  I have been slowly letting my old best friend/Ex into my life again.  As you may have seen in my post “Working on Making an Ex a Friend Again” I have been best friends with him

Living in the Moment

Last week I lost a member of my extended family – Vincent J. Montemayor – to complications related to the West Nile virus (If your community has been put on alert for this virus, please take it seriously and follow all the precautions as closely as possible because death is a definite possibility).  While we

Working on Making an Ex a Friend Again

About two weeks ago, an Ex texted me after not speaking for a year and a half and asked if he could call me to talk about a situation he was going through.  The situation was that his father was just diagnosed with alzheimers.  Of course he got me by adding that little tid bit

Relationship Introspectives

The other day my single girlfriend and I were discussing her latest failed attempt at a relationship with someone she thought was a shoe in…meaning she had known him for several years and had recently felt they were getting closer.  Needless to say when she decided to “go for it” he didn’t share the same