Finding Happiness in the Ordinary

New Year New You?

New Year New You?

Happy New Year!!!! Hello 2013!!! Now I realize that some of you may still be struggling to get functioning again after celebrating to the last wee hours of 2012, but in true New Year’s resolution fashion I’m on a 21 day mission to bring me back […]

Starting to See the Light

Starting to See the Light

Who knew birthdays could be this hard?  I never thought it would happen to me, but I must confess, that I found myself in a dark space after celebrating my birthday this October.  A lot of it stemmed from dealing with the realization another year has […]

Best Friend vs. Love Match

Best Friend vs. Love Match

As you can tell by my title – Best Friend vs. Love Match, I currently find myself in a quandary.  I have been slowly letting my old best friend/Ex into my life again.  As you may have seen in my post “Working on Making an […]

Living in the Moment

Living in the Moment

Last week I lost a member of my extended family – Vincent J. Montemayor – to complications related to the West Nile virus (If your community has been put on alert for this virus, please take it seriously and follow all the precautions as closely […]

Working on Making an Ex a Friend Again

Working on Making an Ex a Friend Again

About two weeks ago, an Ex texted me after not speaking for a year and a half and asked if he could call me to talk about a situation he was going through.  The situation was that his father was just diagnosed with alzheimers.  Of […]

Relationship Introspectives

Relationship Introspectives

The other day my single girlfriend and I were discussing her latest failed attempt at a relationship with someone she thought was a shoe in…meaning she had known him for several years and had recently felt they were getting closer.  Needless to say when she […]